Thoughts on My Year Abroad

Since today is the anniversary of the start of my journey, I thought I would reflect on what has happened since I have been away. Here are my thoughts on my year abroad.

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Nicole the Travel Scribe
Me at JFK waiting to board my flight to Bangkok

The photo above is a selfie from my last day in America which was November 14, 2019. That photo is significant for two reasons: it captures my last moments on American soil, and it is one of the few selfies I have taken where I don’t look like a freak. 

Every day I watch the BBC news and I see the USA is having many issues. It seems the USA has become somewhat unhinged this past year. 

When I am on Facebook, I see people I have known for years viciously turn on each other over a few hot button topics. I have kept mostly silent during this time as I do not wish to get into a heated debate with anyone over any issue. Now I will say what has been on my mind. 

The Global Pandemic

I first heard about Coronavirus late last January. I had not been watching television news while I was in Thailand, Bali and South Korea and therefore I was not aware of it until a friend told me about it on Facebook. The lockdowns have been hard for everyone. There is no conspiracy, it is just an unfortunate series of events that led to the pandemic. Let’s all work together and do whatever we can to get it under control so we can try to resume the lives we had before. 

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To wear or not wear a mask? Last November when I first arrived in Bangkok, I saw a few people walking on the streets wearing masks. At the time, they were wearing them due to air pollution from heavy traffic in the city. By late January when I arrived in Japan the mask wearing became more frequent. Some in America have declared that wearing a mask violates their freedom as an American. I do not see the big deal about wearing a mask when I am in public to protect myself and others from this virus. 

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Mask wearing in Asakusa Tokyo
Worshippers wearing masks at Sensō-ji temple in Tokyo Photo by Nicole Bergstrom

Racial Injustice and Violence

The police brutality and murders of African American citizens is wrong. But, the racial injustices in this country will not be remedied with riots. It will not bring the deceased back and will only bring further devastation. You cannot use violence to protest violence, it doesn’t work. Two wrongs do not make a right. America needs to heal and come together now. 

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Black Lives Matter Protests
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The 2020 Presidential Election

The polarization between the political parties on the presidential election is frightening.  As a member of the media, I feel I should be politically neutral. Therefore, I have not and will not engage in political debates with anyone on social media or anywhere else. Every leader of our country has been an imperfect human being and will have flaws. There should not be character assassinations on opponents’ personal lives in political campaigns. It needs to be about our country’s many problems and how to solve them. Period. 

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every vote counts
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Final thoughts On My Year Abroad

I met a lovely Englishman when I was in Thailand. Last February after I was finished with my work I came here to stay for a while. I now have been living in England for 10 months. It has been a peaceful existence and I want to make a life here. Presently, I am working on making that happen. 

I miss my children Aaron and Kate very much. It has been a year and I have not seen them since I left. When it is safe, I will return to the USA for a visit to see them. I do not know when or if I will return to live in America. I will watch what is going on from across the pond and I hope America can resolve some of its inner conflicts. That is what will make America great again. 

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  1. Wow – so much has happened this year. What a year to start your life abroad right? It seems like it’s worth it though if you’re enjoying your life in England.


    • My intention was to resurrect my travel writing career which had been on the back burner due to a divorce. I also wanted to get some distance between myself and everything for a while. I did not have any intention on meeting someone on this trip, but I suppose that is when you meet the best people-when you are not really looking.


  2. It must be a very strange year to have been travelling, but glad you have been enjoying England so much! I’m English but live abroad and haven’t been able to go back to visit yet.


  3. Wow, indeed what a crazy year for dramatic life changes!
    May I ask how old are your kids? It’s a bit unusual to read about the split-up that disconnects you from those family members who never had the option to choose. How does long-distance motherhood work?


  4. Yes, his is exceptional year. I’m glad that you are happy in London a while now and no stuck somewhere due to the pandemic. I wish you the very best!


  5. It has been a strange year indeed. Mine too, thanks for sharing. There are worse places to be stuck than West Yorkshire, you should be able to find loads to write about there. The area is steeped in history and natural beauty.


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